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It has been some time since my last post and many people have been sending me DMs asking me how things regarding the "Matt situation" have played out. I wanted to give an update after my last post where I found out the boy, I’ve been raising isn’t my biological son. The original post is by u/throwaway022411111. UPDATE: Post link. Hello everyone, again. She paraded the platter of meatballs around my house begging everyone to eat one after we told her not to bring anything. I work there so I think is reasonable, and at least 4 hours on weekends. Fingers crossed that this is the last of Submissions in this sub are re-posts and not posted by the original author. Hey guys, long time no update. we do, and most of the drama that happens in that sub happens for exactly the same reasons that bring most people to AITA. When I (f, 21) was 14 years old, my father died of cancer. **What happened to people who ask reddit for advice or help?** Did they take Reddit's advice? How did it turn out? Read the best updates by redditors and find out what happened after their original post. I wasn’t going to update again but people were asking for one and everything kinda went to shit. CHECK FLAIR to determine if you want to read an update. We have three kids (Kyle 18 F, Karter 21 M and Knox 25 M). AITA for buying lower grade steaks when my in-laws visit and serving my mom and dad Wagyu. NEW UPDATE MARKED WITH---- Editor’s Note: added spaces for readability. And you aren’t getting shit from me because that prenup that you signed 5 years ago…”yeah you are fucked”. I (39F) have been divorced from my ex-husband (41M) for 9 years. [New Update]: AITA for rolling my eyes at my boyfriend's proposal because it took 25 years of me begging? NEW UPDATE MARKED WITH---- Editor’s Note: added relevant comments to add the context to the posts. With the news of the baby incoming, my boyfriend said he wanted me to sell my place so we could use the money to get a new place together, and when I refused he called me irrational. Original Post: January 18, 2023. Therapy also doesn't work if one party is forced to be there & doesn't participate. 01. My wife says I'm asking her to "mask". That is u/ThrowRADangDan. MORE COMMENT UPDATES FROM TODAY AT THE BOTTOM! I am not the OP! Original post is by u/ThrowRAMakeOver on r/AITA. + 1 year update Original Post : March 2, 2023 My wife and I live far away from both of our sets of parents. If you are the original author please contact the mods to have this comment removed. -/-/-/. She explained she needs $25,000 for medication and has accumulated medical bills of $20,000. This has been really hard, and I appreciate all the advice and support from everyone. However, a lot has happened since then. This is a repost. Mood: happy ending, with some unanswered questions. AITA Judgement: Asshole Comment from the OOP: jesus christ, I am a fucking asshole. We decided we were ready last year. If you have a kid that you ignore for 9 years after being told about them, you're an AH. He walked away to finish the call and when he came back he told me I can’t stay because the cats have claws and will ruin the furniture. ONGOING. I got her info from a friend and messaged her, she agreed to talk to me. After my sisters came to my place my mom and dad told me they were done with managing the vacation home. It was about whether I was an asshole for keeping my Dodgers gear up with the sole purpose of pissing off my Texan neighbors. New update is marked with *****. Trigger Warnings: child neglect, verbal abuse, emotional abuse and manipulation, teenage pregnancy, deadbeat parent. Trigger warnings: Implied Homophobia/Transphobia. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Update 2 Feb 13, 2024. He posted in r/AmItheAsshole and r/EntitledPeople. My husband has always talked about having kids. It doesn’t matter if it’s unintentional and ignorant. Dad's GF both wants and doesn't want help. Editor's Note: Added spaces for readability. I don’t know if they call each other to check up. Our parents divorced when I was very young due to our Mother’s insane jealousy. The family went to therapy and stuff and came out of it okay, but the driver was permanently scarred. I said over and over that she was the one who made the joke and Honestly, as far as 'special interests' go it's a pretty good one. Update (rareddit): June 9, 2024. This is an repost The OP is u/lavozdemama and was posted in r/AmITheAsshole. They're uncomfortable, constricting, and expensive. It's been a few months since I initially posted, so here's an update on how my life's going. Thought it might be time given what's gone on over the past two weeks. She claims she had no idea what they planned to do and spent most of the holiday fighting with her parents. After I finished laughing I said to my dear husband that the divorce papers will be delivered to you by tonight. See rule 7. What. And when I walked in our apartment, her and her brother were then placing everything into a box. Edit 2: I reread everything, turns out I forgot some details from this from previous updates. CONCLUDED. I remember a This American Life episode about a truck driver who collided with a family due to the father's irresponsible driving. I 21F is getting married to James 24M in January since the beginning of the planning process The downfall of AITA is tragic. I asked what was going on and my wife, whose face was pale said she was cleaning when her brother came by. Update Post: October 1, 2023 (2 days later) Apologies for posting this on my main page. MOD. You rightfully told off everyone in that room making horrible comments about something that is none of their business. Hi reddit. AITA for not accepting my mom's husband as my dad? AITA. " Apparently my timing was good because my wife laughed but my MIL did not laugh at all. My sister called it, and she evidently had a bone to pick. My husband got married to his new wife and they have 3 kids in total (9m, 5m, 5f). To be honest, I got spooked off being on here too much when one day my story showed up on a friend's Facebook feed. The daughter in their car died and the whole family got fucked up. 5 weeks from last update) Yet another update regarding the cluster f that is my extended family. My girlfriend (25F) and I (26M) have been together for four years. I forgot to mention: Our son goes to kindergarten so my wife has time to work and sometimes be alone at home. You can find that post here. Posted in both AITA and Runawaybrother's Profile. While the consensus was that I was NTA, I did enjoy hearing all the perspectives on this situation. We've been inseparable since kindergarten, and I was ready to make her big day unforgettable. UPDATE one year later (posted June 16, 2020) My post last summer wasn't the most exciting or dramatic on AITA, but I wanted to provide an update if anyone is interested. i showed them all the receipts i had for the car and the footage of her letting the guys come and take it as well as the title for the vehicle in my name. I am NOT the Original Poster. NEW UPDATE. But I missed the “cult part” and “youtube joining the family lore” part. I said “of course they do, if they didn’t have claws—“ and my boyfriend cut me off. Poly people in good relationships don’t post on Reddit cos the “drama” usually goes something like ‘hey, i’m feeling a bit deprioritised right now because i haven’t seen you much this month. Update: Just got done speaking to her. TRIGGER WARNING: stalking, sexual harassment and sexism. Forgot about it from the second post/first update. He posted in r/AmItheAsshole. The last one just read as a total repeat of the others - no reason for the update at all except to rile people up again. If you have an issue with this post (flair, formatting, quality), reply to this comment. My stepmother is strictly prohibited from approaching me and my baby, and consequently my father refuses to see his granddaughter without his wife. Just wanted to give an update Regarding Thanksgiving dinner, when my dad and Nicole arrived, I asked if I could speak with them both. Update May 20, 2024. Quick Update - Kyle texted the group chat, his GF knows and she isn't happy. Mood Spoilers: sad ending and frustrated AITA for telling another gym member to wear a bra? - 19 August 2021. they said Boyfriend posts on AITA - Aug 29, 2021. The biggest bedroom is our room, the medium sized bedroom is a guest Originally posted to r/AITAH. After months of stress and no results, we went to a doctor and found out my husband is infertile. There was actually a lot to talk about, because she had a lot of thoughts and feelings. Reply reply. She's an absolute sweetheart of a baby, and I'm totally in love with her. Hey Reddit fam, need your thoughts on a situation that went down in my life. CHECK FLAIR For concluded-only updates, use the CONCLUDED flair. Dad and I both brought her and picked her up. It makes me I’ll thinking of some of the racist or racist adjacent things I’d hear so-called friends say. We moved! We moved back to Los Angeles over the summer. He looked shocked and said ‘I didn’t go anywhere with her after the scan, I needed socks and some other bits’. She asked if I could pay it off. **New updates are from 9th September 2023 - approx 11 months from the last comment** AITA for not accepting my sister's relationship with my ex despite her having cancer as a teenager? - September 28, 2021. Aita for making my ex husband look bad in front of his family. And I respond, "oh that's for chapped lips, I don't jerk off with vaseline. Final Update June 23, 2024. Join the BORU discord server: https://discord. " Which, really, is the opposite of an update. I tried to post an update through the AITA subreddit but it wouldn't let me. At first my Dad was able to handle it but when she started making comments about me wanting to be CHECK FLAIR to determine if you want to read an update. ORIGINAL. Stay with your sister until you get a genuine apology. He called his parents and his mother asked if my cats had claws. yellowbrownstone. There's so many of those types of statements: I (43M) don’t think I’m in the wrong here, but my mother is very angry at me, and my best friend said I was a horrible person for saying what I did and I’d be lucky if my girlfriend didn’t put me out with the garbage - Three of the most important people in his life tell him he's absolutely, tremendously, hideously, life-alteringly in the ETA: Everybody is asking me this. Mood Spoiler: Frustrating and somewhat sad. AITA for not letting my husband put a Peloton in our sunroom. trigger warnings: theft, manipulation, mentioned parent death. So I (17F) have two older brothers (19,21) and a twin sister, i should mention that my family is pretty affluent. Update Post: June 2, 2024 (almost 2 months later) Hey! It's been a couple of weeks and due to people still occasionally asking I thought I'd give a people some quick updates to the situation. Do NOT comment on Original Posts. If you have seen this before, it was likely on a different sub with different rules. She called and asked them to come and no one hesitated to take the morning off of work. He also told Matt to not be scared and do whatever he likes. MembersOnline. just got back and filed an official report against her for grand larceny and grand theft auto. I needed a non-biased view on this ‘wearing gold to a wedding’ issue, and now it’s clear that that was never the issue. We’ve had the house for years now and have designated personal spots in the house. Original - 13 June 2023. r/BestofRedditorUpdates. Your friends telling you that you are overreacting should not be your friends. I was called cold and callous for wanting to put my foot down. 2nd UPDATE - AITA for refusing to be my friend's alibi so he can cheat on his GF? I've been receiving a lot of DMs from people wondering how things turned out after the big reveal, so here's a quick recap: Jen did not accept Matt's apology. That's just a little too reductive and doesn't look at the dynamics of the household. This sub has a 7 day waiting period- ergo, the latest update is 7 days old and not newer. You can find the most recent BORU here, and one with full comments here. That is u/SitSitSit-Throwaway. She's been best friends with her friend (also 25F) since middle school. She brought meatballs because she was jealous Lou’s meatballs got praises from my kids. My (25F) father married my step-sister's (23F) mother when I was 4 and she was 3. I really want to thank all of you for your perspectives and advice. 1: Lost a long term partner who loved and trusted her. THE NEW UPDATE WILL BE MARKED WITH ‼️. AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL. I thought I wouldn’t have to update this, and it would end after my first update. My two sisters (early 30s), my three aunts (two who are my mother's NEW UPDATE. She was cremated and my husband was given a little bit of her ashes in a small urn the size of a pill bottle. For context: my stepmother had a clandestine Update: November 4, 2023 (Next Day) (Same Post but OOP deleted her OG post and wrote the update over it) Hello reddit! Thank you for all for taking the time to comment and engage. Thanks to u/queenlegolas for suggesting this BoRU. I loved him so much, he was the absolute best. When we started talking I told her about the post very quickly. It’s really as simple as treating everyone the same. This is a new update to a previous BORU post made by u/InternetAddict104 a year ago. I (49 F) had an ex husband named Jake (53). UPDATE. Update Post: July 9, 2023 (15 hours later) Hey Reddit! Thank everyone for all the kind words and suggestions. Maybe she was just trying to be nice: "She was not trying to be nice, she was trying to compete with Lou 100%. Trigger Warnings: emotional and financial abuse, possible homelessness and eviction. His account was suspended, so we most likely AITA. New Update marked with ***** I removed some of the previous comments included in the last posts for brevity. When I said she was taking her parents side, it was about my son apologizing for calling my MIL the b-word and c-word. First, I no longer feel bad about making my dad leave the meet-up - since he somehow reconciled with both my mom and sister. LucyAriaRose. Update: For everyone asking for updates our daughters first day of school is coming up. Many of you asked if the dress I wore You didn’t yell at him in front of his family. I scoffed and said ‘I hope the kid isn’t yours’ then left. Original Post (posted 21. On reflection though, I am very disappointed in her reaction as well as my own. Trigger Warnings: emotional manipulation, controlling behavior. First of all I want to thank all the people who left comments and judgements. For concluded-only updates, use the CONCLUDED flair or subscribe to r/BestofBoRU. I (32/f) live with my partner (44/m) and work in research. I spends at least 6 hours at the Bunker on week days. I (F33) am Hindu, and it is a custom in my religion for babies to go through a right of passage by shaving their head when they're typically 1-3 years old. My husband (32M) and I (31F) live in a modest 3 bed 2 bath house. When I came home from work I noticed my shed door was open and the padlock that I used to keep it shut was broken. Original Post: February 22, 2024. Therapy is the reflection of the work, what they do between sessions is the work. Original Post: November 11, 2023. I am not The OOP, OOP is u/MushroomDense4108. March 11, 2024. Rule-breaking may result in a ban without notice. We don’t have kids so it’s just the 2 of us and our dog. Exactly a month after I posted my first write-in, my bio mom’s oldest daughter got really sick. SomaliMN. Polly works in a high-touch, high-interaction job, so we usually say our hellos, make dinner, and then eat separately so she can wind down The original post and update were posted in r/AITA. AITA for “ruining my daughters life”? INCONCLUSIVE. Update 3 Post: September 12, 2023 (2. It’s usually the same people bringing the same dishes and it has been like this for years. so I (32f) and my husband (35m) have been together for eight years, married for six. It didn't get much attention, but I'm back with an update. - Thursday, October 19th, 2023. AITA for not quitting my job over colleague's crush? Note: The Updates are all within the post. Link to the original BoRU-post by u/juracilean, which contained the original post & two updates. The latest update is from 7 days ago, per the rules of this sub. I am 34m and my wife "Polly" is 32f. I am glad Charlie brought him to our house even if his plans backfired. I could have bought it until the last update. Update Post: September 8, 2023 (1 year, 4 months later) I made an AITAH post last year. We had a family meeting at my parents' home about 2 weeks after the original thing went down. I added some of OOP's original comments in this post. mood spoilers: hopeful for her. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. Sorry for this sockpuppet account. •. Myself (33F) and my husband (38) have a 3 month old daughter. I did ask if Polly could be a groomsman, Sharon immediately shot me down. I asked him did he plan on taking my computer. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. It certainly is a little mind-gamey, and is probably something that therapy can help with, but dad's GF shouldn't just be painted as immature or manipulative based on that. Golf people are very golf-oriented, it's not really a casual thing, so lots of socialisation opportunities as there's plenty of people to talk to about it in great depth. So I knew it was true. Here's some common misconceptions or curiosities to clear up: We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Sorry this update took a few days, I'm still reeling from everything that happened. I'm a 28 y/o male and my immediate family is all women, mostly this is because I was raised by my mother and have no contact with my father's side of the family due to a messy divorce when I was young. TRIGGER WARNING: death of a parent, verbal abuse, attempted financial deception Thanks to u/Direct-Caterpillar77 who found the update. Update: She had her first day of school. Please read our SUB RULES before commenting. The last update was basically, "everything is the same and no one has learned anything or matured. Update (Same Post): March 24, 2024 (Next Day) Wow guys, I genuinely didn’t know what to expect posting to strangers on this, but I am so thankful to my husband for suggesting this. Baby Karen was born healthy and happy back in October. AITA for putting in a claim to my late father’s death benefit. I (25f) fucking hate wearing bras. Original Post: July 22, 2023 (Removed from AITA, preserved in comments) Happened today. For context, I [19F] go to the gym regularly and because of my job and school I have a very limited schedule, and I always go during the same hours which works great because at this time the gym is almost empty. Also, if they want to be in therapy, but don't tell the truth or a skewed version of the truth that they believe. Hey, People have asked for updates so I shall offer for anyone who cares to know. FINAL UPDATE: Kim's back, daughter cuts contact. My fiancée and I have spent the last week talking a lot about this. Update Post: March 2, 2024 (3 days later) I posted recently about my daughter surprising me by wanting to turn my wedding dress into a suit, which I refused despite having promised her because the reality hurt me. The original post is by u/Public_Escape. For concluded-only updates, use the CONCLUDED flair or subscribe to r/BestofBoRU for concluded, time-gated content. Thanksgiving is usually held at MIL’s or the oldest daughter’s (f32) because they have the biggest dining rooms. I was hesitant about posting on Reddit at first but I decided to give as many details as possible and put myself out there to get outside insight and to make sure if I'm to blame for what happened to my SIL. My recently engaged best friend (29F) asked me to be her Maid of Honor, and words can't even describe how happy I was. He's always deeply wanted to be a father, so There is a previous compilation by u/bestupdator/. I have 2 older brothers, this is about the middle one. Update 2 Dec 21, 2023. Update May 14, 2024. I thought I was TA because of that, plus my sister sided with him. Update 2 Dec 1, 2023. Tldr: I didn’t know sister was pregnant and made the first pregnancy announcement. Long story short, FIL told my boy to not bother Matt anymore. 1b: Doesn't have work friends, unclear what her social life was outside of him but after 5 years they probably had many shared social circles. We started talking about it the day after my post. 2: Probably won't have as much attention and affection from her sister now she is not able to send her sister money. I (28F) am entangled in a wedding drama of epic proportions. MIL is in charge of the turkey, my bf the dessert etc. After the initial surge of comments here I decided to contact her. Sister is upset due to complicated family dynamic. In mid April, he came to our house to see my sister on her birthday. We have 2 kids (12m, 9F). I asked him not to go again, and he just gave me this cold, expressionless stare. 2022 on AITA) This happened yesterday. With work from home, I spent the last year and a half basically never wearing a bra and got used to it. I first got on that subreddit when it had maybe 100k subs and it was amazing. she has a condition, I unfortunately do not remember what’s it called, but during her pregnancy she used to have like mini-strokes that would make her face and hands go completely numb. The original post/author are noted at the top. UPDATE : went to the police station last night, was told to come back in the morning. Yes, he went to the funeral, which I was very uncomfortable with. To answer a few questions, my daughter is not disabled, chubby, or having an awkward faze (braces/glasses). For concluded-only updates, use the CONCLUDED flair. First things first, I want to thank each and everyone of you who commented, voted, and gave their feedback and advice. Reply reply more replyMore replies. Original Post - November 27, 2023. UPDATE: AITA for “hiding” my saving from my fiancé. This was originally posted on r/BestofRedditorUpdates a year ago by u/qwerty98765432101. Gets him out in CHECK FLAIR to determine if you want to read an update. The title sounds really iffy, so to preface, my husband (M32) is ok with it. He said he would ask them. Before I came into the picture they were attached at the hip and then the BFF got jealous of how often my girlfriend and I were together. Here's how it happened. He posted in r/AITAH and r/amiwrong . I can kind of understand the multiple updates. I found out through relatives. And not “ othering”people. Originally posted to r/AmItheAsshole. For context, after graduating and receiving my postgraduate diploma, I landed my dream job that earned a good sum of money. gg/Hx2hym2juy. So today I left work early to catch her in the middle of her plans. Now for the update, because a lot of people asked for one. Extreme parentification is abuse and brings about a warped sense of duty which gets entangled with entitlement. Quite frankly, my boobs are nonexistent anyways. I realized my first reaction was full of anger. AITA for fighting with my mil about not wanting kids at my wedding. Level headed commenters, believable posts… honestly one of my favorite places on the internet. AITA for not wanting to take my ex-husband's kids on vacation? The original poster is u/Specific-Papaya3577 on subreddit r/AITAH. AITA for choosing my grandfather to walk me down the aisle instead of my father? Trigger Warnings: slurs, homophobia, traumatic birth, death of a parent, and verbal abuse ulzimate. Before he could open his mouth I said ‘so you can take your ex shopping for a kid that’s probably not even yours but not go with me’. nikatnight. But yeah, ur right, I need to make arrangements. Brother is 100% in the wrong but it sounds like he had insane pressures as a child-parent and developing anxiety based control issues is common for parentified kids. Sure there are reasons to have doubts, but if you do your due diligence then you can convince yourself that your child exists in a few weeks at the most. Update Post: December 27, 2023 (5 weeks from OG post) Hi everyone, it’s been a while. Trigger Warning: anger issues; assault; attempted murder; CHECK FLAIR to determine if you want to read an update. Original Post - December 11, 2023. Especially as a poc, you need to be aware and vigilant for it. Edit: Found the cult part. But deep down, I couldn’t ignore how much I love the boy. Then for the next three days she kept asking me ARE YOU GONNA BE GROSS AGAIN when I tried to make normal conversation. I apologised for having contacted her fiance and she said she accepts my apology. Originally posted to r/AITAH. . observee21. I've only been on Reddit sporadically since classes have ended but have decided to give those wondering one final update. He also instructed that my boys help me in the kitchen once a week to learn how to manage home. My primary colleague (30/m) and I have worked together for ~2 years on a major project involving significant intellectual and labor contributions from us both. It was absolutly devastating for me, my world ended that day. After that I paid for my food and left. Me and my bf went over to my friend’s house to have the talk about getting professional help and they kept throwing little digs at each other throughout. Dad and grandparents are coming to my house on her first day of school for pictures. That is u/Possible_Soil_3886. (I did correct a few spelling errors for readability, but everything else is the same!) I marked it as concluded since this chapter seems to be over. Meaning he ain’t getting shit. Like a lot of couples, we debrief after our workdays. META commentary in general discussion may be removed. . Here are the basic bullet points: My sister has now been officially diagnosed with Postpartum Depression and that is the trump card/Hail Mary of the LucyAriaRose. Mood Spoiler: things are actually looking better for OOP. OOP UPDATES THE SAME POST 5 HOURS LATER. This is a repost, since new updates were posted. AITA for Asking for Space from My Wife? Trigger Warnings: emotional manipulation and abuse, accusation of infidelity. Mood Spoiler: happy ending. mood spoilers: happy for OOP AITA for pressing charges against my girlfriend's friend for stealing my doll? - July 17, 2022 CHECK FLAIR to determine if you want to read an update. So, I've been married to my wife for a few years now, and don't get me wrong, I love AITA for making someone uncomfortable at the gym. iz lb hl mk pt bi nc of hn vm